A Lesson About Horoscope Friends

What are friends exactly? I define them as people who you trust to at least a certain threshold level, and who also trusts you to a certain threshold level. Hence there is a reciprocal of trust leading to a mutual relationship (What Biologists will call mutualism) and there is an exchange of views, thoughts, interactions and personalities... But, know this... And that is that there are many people whom you will meet in life, and there is a bold line seperating who are acquaintances and who are friends exactly. Within friends itself, we will have fine lines that sort of categorize friends into a heirachy in which you will regard certain friends as 'on-hold' or 'special' or 'best' or even just 'I dun really know yet...'. Whatever it is, no one can deny that we humans will always have certain groups of people whom we would regard more highly than others. That's just how things work.


Now before I go into today's topic about horoscope friends, let me share a controversy regarding friendship, and that is that... ... Friendship between friends who trust each other to different levels... Is this still considered a true friendship? I see it in two ways actually... Firstly yes, it is a friendship as much as the level of trust is not the same for both parties... There is still an exchange of ideas, views and interactions and both consider each other friends, but just not to the same level. Anyhows it is still a friendship right!? But also NO, because a true friendship involves a two-way flow of interactions and ideas. If this balance is disrupted then there will be no equilibrium, resulting in something like a net one-way flow instead. Isn't this an exploitation? I mean that innocent fool at the lower end doesn't even have a clue that there is this 'exploitation'. So yea... this is a CONTROVERSY!!! hmmm... Want my opinion, both are still true friendships because I believe that the guy at the lower end is happy that way. Whether 'exploitation' may be bad, the lower end guy may not feel it that way. And who are we outsiders to intervene when the lower end guy has no problems about it. That imbalance can be curbed one day... I AM SURE ABOUT IT... ... AS long as one day the upper guy sees the sincerity and effort so the balance becomes restored! If anyone has a view about this, plz tag me k. I wanna see you guys views about this controversy. Let's make it a DEBATE!!! LOLX


k, now back to horoscope of friends, here I shall post a list of the description of friends in the 12 horoscope so that u may find it useful when looking out for a friend or maybe perhaps just trying to understand a friend better... Without further ado let me begin:

1) Capricorn: A Capricorn friend offers a steady and reliable friendship. They tend to make friends that last a life time and are the best to call for those late night emergencies. Unwavering loyalty and great practicality that conquers mountains are some of their best traits. A Capricorn friends unexpected, often subtle but wicked sense of humor is also of great enjoyment. Where you need to be careful is watching their views of the status quo - embarrassing them in any sense of the word is never an option.

2) Aries: Being friends with an Aries is like having a champion (fighter or defender) on your side. When they are your friend they are truly your friend and they won’t listen to others bad mouth you and will generally think the best of you. One of their best qualities is their willingness to go to bat for you. If you need help moving or starting a new project, Aries is the friend to ask. Another one of their gifts is to get to the heart of the matter; their fiery enthusiasm and clear perception is a great alley for their friends.

3) Cancer: If your going through a break up, had a recent death of someone close to you, or just having a hard time, Cancer is the friend for you. They are extremely nurturing, empathetic and sympathetic. When their emotions are involved, there is little they wouldn’t do for you - including cleaning your home, feeding you or even taking care of your finances. Such strong emotions can also be their downfall as they have a tendency to wallow in them and excluding anything and everyone (you included) while they dwell. When a Cancer friend is feeling good though, the sky is the limit with their friendships and they have a wonderful ability to make and plan events that give you memories of a lifetime.

4) Libra: A Libra friend is great company. Depending on the people and the situation they can be sweetly charming social butterflies, steady fast friends that truly listen and give great advice or just a fun pal to hang around. One of their best qualities is the ability to see both sides of a situation and all the inner workings of relationships; this is great when you need relationship advice as counseling is often a part of their nature. This same trait can be very annoy though when its not used in your favor or when the Libra friend gets too bogged down in trying to be fair to everyone and can’t make a decision.

5) Taurus: As friends, Taurus offers a strong shoulder to lean on that no other sign can match. Their practical natures and deep inner knowing of their own strength can give you great comfort in times of hardship. They are exceeding loyal but do have a tendency to be possessive. Taurus often view their friendships as another possession and can be quite jealous of any other friendships. Taurus is often slow to start friendship but they very often last a life time. If you anger them though their stubborn nature can kick in and leave you in the cold.

6) Pisces: No other sign beats a Pisces friend for kindness. When your down or just needing someone to build you up, this is the friend to seek. They are the epitome of compassion and have a seemingly endless supply of hugs, sympathetic words and willingness to bend over backwards for you in your times of needs. A Pisces friend is also great for building dreams with as their imaginations have no limits. However, they are so emotional, that it often consumes them and they can indulge in self pity like no other. When they are in these moods, nobody is home and you might not hear from them for months as they lick their wounds.

7) Sagittarius: When you need a pick me up, some fun or a good laugh, seek a Sagittarius friend. Their unique viewpoints and ability to find or make fun in any situation is priceless. A Sagittarius friend is as great for fun filled activities as they are for those long and meaningful talks. Their honesty is both a plus and a negative - it can be very refreshing and often amusing but when it turns personal, their thoughtless words can be pretty hurtful.

8) Virgo: If you’re sick, need some help or some good advice, Virgo friends are the ones to seek. They have a great concern for the welfare of others and are always willing to go the extra mile to help you out. Their solid, practical natures are great in many situations and their ability to plan with extreme detail is amazing. They are not shy in giving you their time or energy, but they are also not so shy in point out your faults, how you messed up or nagging you to better yourself.

9) Gemini: Gemini is the friend to seek when you want to learn something new, need more information or want to talk of your mutual pet subjects. They seem to know a little something of everything and people too. Gemini friends are also social networkers and can help you get in the know. Usually witty, they always have something to say which makes them tons of fun to be around; they are the friend to invite to a party or throw a party with. Often Gemini friends have busy social lives which can leave you hanging or puzzled as you wait for their attention to return to you.

10) Aquarius: Aquarian friends are unique - they always have an opinion or some factoid that you’ve never heard before. They easily see the bigger picture. Adding their great organizational skills, they are the friends to seek when your starting any new enterprise as their vision is unsurpassed. They love their causes and they love humanity. Such can add a very useful network of associations and they seem to know just the right person to talk to or approach. With such wide interests though, the downside can be that they easily obsess over things and you won’t see or hear from them for months as they are consumed. Their arrogance is also legendary.

11) Scorpio: Scorpio is the friend to seek when you need the truth. When asked they never pull their punches and they can easily see into the heart of situations. A Scorpio friend is very loyal and will walk with you through any hardship. They are the best during any crisis. They can be quite possessive and jealous of your friendship though so its best to establish your boundaries and limits from the start.

12) Leo: A Leo friend is loving and affectionate. They are the ones your most likely to receive presents from, and surprises for those special occasions. Their friendship and personality gives off much warmth and they enjoy making you happy. Actually Leo friends can be pretty insistent that you remain happy as they will take it personally if your not and show you their pouty, arrogant side that gives you the cold shoulder. Otherwise its all fun and games and spending time with them is like an adventure.

ok, hope what I posted gave u insight both more about yourself and about your friends around you. Though horoscope accuracy can vary from person to person know that the fate of a person is not solely based on the position of the Sun on your birth. The nine planets play a part too. For non-believers take this as entertainment and just laugh if you think it's so true or so NOT. But for believers like me... Hmm... Interesting isn't it? haha

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